MySQL character sets, the end

Many times in the past I've tried to get our foreign MySQL server to properly store and handle unicode character sets. Despite the fact that I repeatedly set 'default-character-set=utf8' all over the config files and set the server and client character sets and collations in my.cnf, it still wouldn't handle them properly. Here's the kicker : to make absolutely sure that the server uses only server settings for handling character set (and sets 'fuck you' to whatever the client requests), you have to use the '--skip-character-set-client-handshake' argument when starting the MySQL daemon (server). This is what finally got it going for me. I hope this post helps somebody out someday. (Given my rate of forgetting things, it's likely to be me)